My b/f is always saying how small his penis is.And 1night I made a small-joke.He got mad. Why is this? -
Was it wrong of me to do this. I dont understand why its such a big deal to him. I think its perfect size, but when I was joking around it came out as if i was saying it was small, he wouldn-t talk to me the rest of the night. Is it really that big of a deal? What can I do to fix things and make he not be mad at me anymore?
p.s He did say one thing that night but i could barely hear him. All I heard was something about self-esteem. Whats he mean buy that?
guys junk is really important 2 them n almost every guy is self conscious about it!! dnt bag it, say its awesome n that it rocks ur jocks off. he-ll b more happy if u show him the rocking ur jocks off in personHopefully some men will answer too. Many men equate their masculinity and self-esteem with penis size. If he had already expressed to you that he feels inadequate about his size, joking about it was a horrible mistake. Not sure how you fix it, except to show him that you have no problem with him. SHOW him don-t talk anymore about it unless he brings it up.
Why it-s a big deal: think of something about yourself that you are sensitive about and imagine him joking about it.
When a person is sensitive about something, it-s never funny to them.
Good luck, hope you can work things out.well one the reason its small to him because he sees it alot so it looks small to him and normal. its kinda like that with all guys you know when you see it alot it doesnt look so different. and with you naw you prolly didnt need to make a joke about it because he prolly doesnt think its good enough as is and you prolly hit him good with that one so he was prolly upset. next time try complaning how big it is you know. make him feel happy and good about his . you know lol i mean when you say good words his self-esteem goes up.
but who cares about the size of a penis a real long one hurts lol so yeah.Hi,
Well on my own experience my g/f had a joke on me regarding on that topic, and i got pissed, and your b/f felt the same way i do, he got offended on what youve said, and he is tryng to keep that as a simple joke thats why he-s telling self esteem but on the other hand, he felt bad on that joke
Well Next Time try to minimize some offending jokes,
Hope it could help you!
Smile =)guys are way sensitive about that stuff. be serious and say -baby, i wasn-t seriously implying that you are small. it was a joke. i joked about it because i know it-s not true. i-m sorry you were offended and i won-t joke about that anymore because it bothers you.-
something like that...Well obviously he has self esteem issues he talks about how he has a small wiener so that you go - Oh no honey its HUUGGEEEE-
So when u insinuated he had a small one you hurt his feelings. Just try to make it up to him and tell him its a great size and he knows how to work it ^.-I guess it-s like when we complain about looking fat or our skin or hair looking stupid, we can dis ourselves all we want, but if your b/f agreed with you about that dress making you look fat you would feel bad about that and you know how guys get their feelings hurt and they act worse than we girls do, don-t stress about it just tell him how much you love every part of him and let him know that he satisfies you.He probably said, -Way to ruin a guy-s self esteem...-
He is always talking about how small it is because he wants you to correct him and tell him how big you think it is.You should just tell him you were joking. Its like him saying that you have a big thigh. A guys penis is like a girls boob, if they didnt have them, they would be screwed.
:]i have the same problem if ur b/f thinks his penis is small he mite not think he able to satisfy u and by u joking he thinks he is small talk to him let him know he makes u feel good wen lovemaking try to build his confidenceIts a mentality that bigger will get the job done better. Most guys are extremely self conscious about it.Is he a very big person? if so, then tell him he has very big one, that will make him your friend for life.
If he is small in stature then tell him he is all cock.NEVER EVER KID ABOUT SIZE WITH A MAN.
Is one of those things you just dont make fun of. Imagine him saying that your vagina/breast were inadequate.alot of guys are worried and i would tell him it was a joke and you didnt realize it would hurt him like it didGuys are very sensitive about the size of our penis. And you should never make a joke if we feel insecure about it. I mean you just don-t make a joke about it to your boyfriend, because you are the on person that-s not sapposed to make a joke about it if you know what I mean. Like your his girlfriend your sapposed to give him compliments. This is just one thing that us guys are really sensitive about. Now I do think that he over reacted a bit. But just a little bit. Nothing against you I just don-t think you should have said anything about it if you knew he was touchy about the subject.
And what he meant but the self esteem thing, he just meant that you made him feel really small, you hurt his feelings, and you hurt his self esteem.
TO fix things, you need to go up to him and appologize for what he said, and reassure him that you like his penis and his size is a great size for you. And you really enjoy it. Guys will be forgiving if you flatter us.
I hope that helped.
-Connor
My b/f is always saying how small his penis is.And 1night I made a small-joke.He got mad. Why is this? -
