Advice on how i should go about telling my gf about fordyce spots on my penis? -

Advice on how i should go about telling my gf about fordyce spots on my penis? -

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If you don-t know what they are, google image it.

Anyway, im pretty much shi*ing myself about what she wold think. This is probably going to be one of the hardest things i-ve ever had to do and i dunno how to tell tell her!

Help!? we-re both 18.

They-re completely normal, they-re nothing to worry about.

The only thing to worry about is if she freaks out - thinks they-re something else - in which case, she-s wrong, since they-re normal (chances are she probably has them too, somewhere but hasn-t noticed)

However, I doubt she-ll do that. She might be like -oh aye?- but as long as you assure her that they-re normal - wear a condom, there should be no problem.

There are apparently ways to help them, for cosmetic purposes. Maybe ask your doctor how to help with them (prevent spreading or worsening etc) - I hear Tretinoin gel works, though ask your doctor first to see if it-s worth trying.

If your gf knows that you-ve seen a doctor about them - they-re completely normal, then there should be nothing to worry about.

Usually they will fade around 18/19 . but as you know they are completely harmless. Lots of guys have them and they show up more on some than others . If you have already looked them up on Google then print off the explanation and have it with you when you let her see it . If you have bee together a while it sounds like you may have been holding back from trying to have any sexual contact , even to letting her masturbate for you . If that is the case then next time you are alone then bite the bullet and tell her and if necessary let her see the print off the explanation

I got some cream from the chemist for them. I had to rub it in, the only trouble was it used to keep spurting out of the top.

you are worrying over nothing. don-t even mention it. she won;t notice. if she has seen a guy before, she will know they are normal. if you are her first, she will think that is normal too.

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She probably has them too..

dude, everyone has them. What-s the big deal?

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Advice on how i should go about telling my gf about fordyce spots on my penis? -